Boom!

"If you are willing to be, ok with, or comfortable being somebody’s other woman, then you must be unassured of your value or worth as a woman! As a woman you have to place value to yourself by setting standards that only you can uphold. If you can become accustomed to lying with, kissing & sexing a man behind another woman, become accustomed to being there to spread your legs every time he can get away from her long enough for a quickie with you; only to watch him leave & go right back to her when he’s done pleasuring himself with you. If you can become accustomed to not being able to call his phone freely because he is home with her & the kids (his family). If you become accustomed to spending nights alone while she sleeps wrapped in his arms, and all you can do is think about him but you can’t call. You become accustomed to and are ok with him reassuring you that he will never leave her no matter what (etc.) if you can become accustomed to any of these things, how can you ever look to be respected by the man when you clearly don’t respect yourself. If you don’t value you, then neither will he, and if you don’t hold any value than what are you worth? A jewel without value holds no worth! Stop allowing yourselves to become convenient booty calls & convincing yourselves that you are in an actual relationship with a man who is clearly in a relationship already. Sometimes women disrespect themselves far worse than any man ever could by allowing themselves to end up in situations as such; only you can command respect, but when you go along with something like this, it symbolizes desperacy."

By: Highly Favored